Isn’t it hilarious how people can get such deranged ideas in their heads? You assume that people will understand your intentions & your motivations, however that has rarely really the case, then everyone’s brain works a bit different, & I think it’s unrealistic to guess that someone understands all the complex mechanisms inside of yours, however this was more obvious than ever when I finally had the long-awaited breakup talk with our ex-boyfriend, then for weeks, every one of us had simply been ignoring each other.
Obviously, something had gone wrong & it needed to be resolved so every one of us could keep transporting forward, however, this decision had honestly nothing to do with heating & cooling systems, i know, I really did not see the connection between our doomed romantic partnership & air quality control management either, and but somehow, the low-quality heating & cooling plan at his beach house had become inextricably linked to our mutual distrust in his head. For as long as every one of us have been together, our boyfriend’s beach house had long been uncomfortable with stagnant indoor air & low-powered , but all of us had discussed the very poor airflow in his room & the necessity for a professional HVAC inspection several times over before I pulled the trigger & called an HVAC specialist out for him, shortly thereafter, I felt that things just were not honestly working & distanced myself. Apparently, in the conversational abyss, our ex-boyfriend became convinced that the poor HVAC plan was the reason for our recent relationship’s decline! More recognizably, he thought the strapping young HVAC specialist who came by to professionally inspect his failing heating & cooling equipment & dirty air ducts was the reason for our abrupt disinterest. My decision honestly had nothing at all to do with the heating & cooling professional… however it was partially due to his deep seeded paranoia.